What services do I need on my Ford Explorer to make it run like new? And how much will it all cost?

You have quite a list here. The only thing I can tell you is that it will cost a lot of dollars. It is hard to know exactly without going over the truck. The suspension needs to be looked at, plus there may be some problem with the AC compressor. I am sure it needs all the filters replaced, fluids replaced, and a tune up. If it means that much to you. Then start on it, one thing at a time. good luck.